Call it official: I don’t know what the heck to think about gender anymore. I really don’t think it exists the way it used to. We now live in a society where men can become women, women can become men, either can exist as an androgynous, unidentifiable... Read More

Sometimes, you really want to get away and go crazy and shake off every last, stifling bit of the office drone you pretend to be for 40 hours of every long, long week. You want to scream and dance, make out with strangers, drink fruity drinks with more... Read More

I can’t wait to watch the Colts and the Saints lay it all on the line in the 44th Super Bowl this weekend! There's something very sexy about watching muscular men grunting and groaning and patting each other on the ass. Those of you who don’t... Read More

I know, I know…this could be a book. Actually, I’m pretty sure a lot of people have made oodles of money on books just like this. But I’ll keep my list short and sweet: things I wish my folks had had the balls to be blunt enough (or perceptive... Read More

1. Sexy clothes. Brooke Burke, one of USA’s hottest female exports on calendars, often looks more suggestive in her clothes than her bikini. More can be sexier than less. Give your lover something that's suggestive to you and can be peeled off... Read More

What happens on Valentine’s Day? Well, it depends! Do you want to move the relationship forward or hold back until more time has passed? Just know that Valentine’s Day gifts can say more than you want and also less than what is desired or expected... Read More

I can admit it: I don’t know it all. Despite years of diligent, ahem, research in the area, there’s much that still mystifies me about the male body and mind. So, in the spirit of education, here we are at the esteemed University of What the Hell... Read More

This Valentine’s Day get crafty outside of the bedroom by thinking about grade school. Yup—grade school! Remember when most of us got those little cards in school saying something like Be My Valentine or Your Secret Admirer often shaped within... Read More

I’m not a fan of rules (says the totally typical 20-something sitting in a hip coffee shop, drinking tea and writing on her laptop). What I’m even less a fan of are rules involving escapades of the emotions. Affairs of the heart. The lore of the... Read More

1) He takes care of the little things in his life I’m talking about a man who actually goes to the dentist on a somewhat regular basis, changes the oil in his car when he’s supposed to and remembers to vote in local elections. These are the tiny... Read More