You can tell a lot about a person from their internet dating profile. Like how they look at relationships and if they have any deep-seated issues with people of the opposite sex. Or what their long-term goals are and whether or not they might be compatible with yours. But unfortunately, an internet dating profile can only get you so far. For everything else, you have to ask questions and look for hints in order to really understand what somebody you're dating is all about.
Many of a person's likes, dislikes, and interests say more about them than they think. Ready to play amateur psychologist? Read on for six interesting things your partner's television viewing habits may be saying about them... without them even knowing it.
1. The Sports Nut.
Dating somebody who says he or she watches hours of sports a day? This person is all about what's real and what's in the here and now. Sports, after all, are not about fantasy or about stories-- they're about real, reachable, concrete goals. Because what they love is so inherently physical, most sports lovers are physical and active, and relish a challenge. They tend to be alpha types who go right after what they want.
2. The Reality TV Fanatic.
Somebody who loves reality TV doesn't give in to the idea of fantasy. His or her mind is based more in what is concrete and right before his or her eyes. If your date loves a TV show like Survivor or American Idol (or your country's version of those same shows), he or she probably thrives on competition. This is a person who thinks that anything's possible. If, on the other hand, your date loves romance- or drama-based reality TV programming, he or she has an escapist tendency, and loves a little voyeurism.
3. The Educational TV Guru.
Some people only like to watch programming that teaches them something concrete. If you're dating somebody who says they watch only educational programming, it generally means they have a passion for learning and a thirst for knowledge. This kind of person is curious and adventurous and fun to be around. He or she will never be bored when exposed to something new-- he or she will be enthralled with it. This date is a lot of fun to be around, and a fascinating person to have a conversation with. Who knows what you might learn?
4. The Romance and Drama Addict.
Dating a person who won't miss an episode of their favorite romantic drama? Then he or she is somebody who gets off on the emotional highs and lows of love and relationships. This is a person who is very deep-feeling and emotional, and perhaps a little idealistic. If you want to be with somebody who can have an in-depth conversation about love, life, and the human condition, this is the person to go to.
5. The Comedy Lover.
Somebody who loves comedies is all about having fun. If somebody you're dating won't touch a TV drama with a 10-foot pole but has the schedules for all the comedies on the major networks memorized, he or she is probably somebody who doesn't like to take life too seriously. If you're looking for somebody easy-going and relaxing to be with, this can be a great thing. If, however, you're looking for somebody to grow with and who will challenge your point of view, you probably won't find it here.
6. Mr. or Ms. "Serious News."
If that guy or girl you met on an internet dating site admits that he or she is glued to CNN or another all-news channel 24 hours a day, it generally means that person is passionate, knowledgeable, and a critical thinker. People who are constantly watching the news are generally the type that cares about what's going on in the world. Even if you have different opinions about what should be happening in the world, a news-lover can be a wonderful, passionate, insightful person to date. This is the kind of person with whom you can stay up late having long conversations. It's also the type of person who probably doesn't enjoy abstract or philosophical conversations: this person's passions are all in the here and now.
