We women know it: men are intensely physical, and looks mean a lot to them. While a woman is generally attracted to something intangible and seductive about a man, a man is generally attracted to what a woman looks like. That certainly explains the volumes of email received by a woman with an ultra-attractive internet dating photo. It means that an ultra-attractive woman is, of course, every man's dream girl. Even if he's too nervous to go up and talk to her.
Fortunately for you men out there, looks aren't everything when it comes to attracting a woman. Women look for something strong and innately appealing in a man; and it isn't necessarily something we see on their faces or in their pecs. And for those men who are afraid to approach very attractive women, this is something that you can use to your advantage. If you do it right, there's no reason why you can't approach ultra-attractive women. Even if you aren't a clone of George Clooney.
Confidence
The first element of successfully approaching a very attractive woman is confidence. If you allow nerves to get the best of you, your chances of getting an encouraging answer from a beautiful woman are pretty darned low. After all, beautiful girls have men approaching them all the time; something which must get pretty tiring. To separate yourself from all the fawning guys she runs into every time she leaves the house, it's best to approach a really beautiful woman as if she were like any other girl. If you let her looks intimidate you, you already have the first strike against you.
Being confident doesn't necessarily mean being cocky. A beautiful girl is used to having men hit on her whenever she goes out, so don't be one of those men. Instead, treat her like the person she is-- because outside of her looks, she's just like anybody else. In fact, the best way to get a beautiful girl's attention is to give her very little. Because she's used to having men falling over her, staring at her, and giving her loads of attention, it's a good idea to be as different from those guys as possible. If you act differently from every other guy she's run into tonight, you may just pique her interest.
Engagement
Just as with any woman, the secret to chatting up a beautiful woman is to engage her interest. So many men see a beautiful woman and go into hyper-male mode. This is exactly the wrong tack to take. Women, both beautiful and plain, tend to date men they actually like. So it's important to be somebody that she enjoys talking to. Talk to her like a real person, and do your best to be funny, light, and engaging.
Look at it this way: many beautiful women complain that only very good-looking men have the guts to come and talk to them. But the kind of man who will confidently approach a beautiful woman can be a bit light on personality. An ultra-attractive woman may just be dying for some real conversation with a real person. If you can be that person, you may just capture her attention.
Perspective
Last but definitely not least, an important part of approaching beautiful women is a healthy perspective. Yes, you're attracted to her looks. But if a woman you talk to is dismissive, rude, or outright mean, you're better off without her. She may be beautiful, but you deserve better than to be treated like an insect. Move on to the next girl --even if she's not as good looking-- and don't look back. You can do better than a girl who is beautiful on the outside and ugly on the inside
