In the wild, crazy world of online dating, we always want to put our best foot forward. Even pulling from all of our experiences in the past, and our knowledge of ourselves, it’s impossible to account for the one unknown: the little idiosyncrasies of the men we’re going out with.
Granted, we could interview every dude on the street and there would still be no predicting that Mr. Seems-Great-Online will hate your strappy red shoes and never call you again. Shrug. People are weird.
But in a continued effort to offset some of the man-mines waiting to blow up your illusions of romance, I’ve picked the brains of 4 fine young men to find out what little annoying things we gals do that drive them crazy…and not in the good way:
Name:
Nick
Answer:
“Picky eating. If I meet a girl and I’m trying to assess whether or not I’d want to date her, and I find out she has crazy eating restrictions (or even that she’s a vegetarian), she loses points. I know that’s not very fair, but it’s true. I like girls I can just eat whatever with and not have to spend tons of time thinking about whether it’s non-dairy, vegan-friendly, organic whatever.”
Name:
Jesse
Answer:
“Lying about little things. I just don’t get it and so many girls seem to do it. If I catch you lying about something stupid, like, say, you were getting your nails done and you told me you were studying…what the hell? Why would I care if you were getting your nails done? What I do care about is your level of honesty. If you would lie about something small to avoid me getting even a little, temporarily annoyed, then you would definitely lie about the big, important things. No trust is a no-go.”
Name:
Kevin
Answer:
“Clean freaks. I mean, it’s okay if you want to keep things tidy but if we’re eating takeout and watching a movie, don’t immediately jump up and clean everything up when we’re done eating. Just sit back and enjoy our time together…better things might happen. Also, if a girl is super clean freak about herself, like, she never wants to get dirty…that’s lame. I like girls I can go to a park and throw a Frisbee and run around and go hiking with without her being bothered by her hands getting dirty.”
Name:
Johnny
Answer:
“Telling their friends everything! I once dated a girl and the minute I told her I loved her for the first time, she immediately squealed and picked up her phone to call her best friend. She said her friends had been placing bets on how long it was going to take me to finally say it…it had only been two months of dating, anyways! But I was just really uncomfortable with her friends knowing all these details of our relationship…and especially upset that her gossip with them was more important to her than enjoying that moment with me. It kinda made me rethink wanting to tell her I loved her at all, to be honest.”
Mr_Chest
27 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on March 29, 2010, 10:20 pm
Shopping... Yes Shopping. Its the one thing that drives me nuts. And to make matters worse, I hate walking around with all the bags & waiting for her while she is in the change room. Might I add that its really annoying when its my turn to pick something... she's like yea yea... oh honey... look at this... isn't this cute...Arrr.
TheDonald
48 / Male
Comments: 2
Posted on April 15, 2010, 9:52 pm
Cats ! ! ! ! !
A cat is normal and just fine unless of course you call it "my baby" and it walks on tables and sleeps in the bed. If a cat, or for that matter a dog, sleeps in your bed then I don't.
What's worse than cats?
Disrespectful children. I know they are your children and not mine. I believe a woman should be treated with respect at all times. So when I see a woman being treated badly my first impulse is to defend her. HUGE MISTAKE. If I even suggest that they are being disrespectful I am in the wrong. I will never change you or your children. At the first sign of poorly behaved children I walk.
Muzikull
42 / Male
Comments: 3
Posted on April 30, 2010, 10:18 am
1. i definitly agree with Johnny on this,"“Telling their friends everything!"
2. when You ask them what they would like to do or where they would like to go? and they reply,"whereever You want to go," then they bitch the whole time You are at the plumbing expo...lol...
Davensac
43 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on May 4, 2010, 10:05 pm
texting during a date. When you keep checking your phone during the date, just tell me you're not interested and I can go home please. My friend is constantly checking her phone and then telling me about what a loser the guy is...so if he's a loser why date him? I dont understand women sometimes...
Monie
41 / Female
Comments: 5
Posted on May 22, 2010, 7:31 pm
I have to agree with mr-chest and (SHOCK, HORROR) i'm a woman, I don't take men shopping because they winge too much. So you go shopping and they do what they want to do (probably some men stuff that wouldn't interest gitls).
I also agree with thedonald i love my cat but i also remember she is an animal, i love dogs also but they are just animals too.
CREATIVE69
68 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on May 29, 2010, 4:31 pm
asking too many questions---such as ---OH YOU STOPPED THERE ?
Sweetsingleguy
36 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on July 11, 2010, 8:00 am
sweetsingleguy Women Want To Keep Secrets From Men.. But Women Don't Like It When Men Keep Secrets from Them..I Think Women Are insecure!!
Shadowknows
47 / Male
Comments: 2
Posted on August 16, 2010, 10:28 am
In 5 words Women that develop Cinderella complex.
Arvinpeopleinlove
26 / Male
Comments: 3
Posted on August 24, 2010, 3:05 am
Little lies and secret gardens !!! i want my girl to tell me everything and i`ll tell her everything too ... once i notice she`s telling lies or hiding things i`ll try to ask what`s the matter ... if we can fix the problem , it`s all great but if that habit goes on ... i`ll put a big cross on her name :)
Wahooney
30 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on August 26, 2010, 2:45 am
Jealousy over female friends. I grew up with girls as friends, now as an adult, most of my friends are female too. I broke up with my ex (twice :P) because she couldn't get used to the fact that I had lots of female friends, despite the fact that I told her I didn't mind her having male friends, one of which was her ex.
ChristabalDebloom
31 / Male
Comments: 2
Posted on November 8, 2010, 12:47 am
The Most Annoying Girl Habit You’ve Encountered?
ON EVERY DATING WEBSITE I'VE BEEN ON I GET NOTHING BUT FEMALE SCAMMER!!!
1.NO I WILL NOT PAY UR HOTEL BILLS
2.NO I WILL NOT PAY 4 UR MOTHER FUNERAL
3.NO I WILL NOT PAY U TO GET OUT OF JAIL
AN MY FAV BUT IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU WILL HELP ME,
NOTHING BUT SCAMMER EVEN ON THIS WEBSITE, THIS HAPPEN TO ME ALL THE TIME ALL HOT CHICKS ARE FAKES UNTIL PROVEN OTHERWISE, NO ONE IS F-ING REAL ANYMORE. I'M SICK OF THE B.S LADIES I'M NOT AN UGLY GUY AN U DON'T HAVE TO BE A PERFECT 10 TO TALK TO ME!!!
Simplyshym
35 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on January 17, 2011, 5:30 pm
I agree why can most chicks just be normal instead of being lying, scheming caniving the list goes on he will do this for me because i am pretty and he thinks i am into him F(*&K off. Are there any normal girls left or are they all just low lifes
Travi
29 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on January 21, 2011, 1:29 am
When she says something does not bother her, then one day cracks it and gets angry. And tells me I should of known that it bothered her. But why would i give it a second thought after she told me it does not bother her?? >_<
She should just be honest to herself and me.
For example cooking. I say i will cook, she says no no.. shes happy too.
Then later gets angry and says it would be nice if i cooked sometime, when I am totally happy too!! just that she never let me!! I mean WTF!!
Albino_Mr_T
40 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on February 8, 2011, 6:10 pm
Most annoying girl habit:
I want something therefore, I expect as a man you will deliver it to me. I will not listen to whether or not you WANT to do it, I will not discuss whether I have EARNED it, I will not contemplate the idea that my request may be UNREASONABLE. but what I WILL do is treat you like an absolute creep if you don’t deliver, I will scream rant & carry on like a pork chop (yes pork chops are very badly behaved, especially in the moment before you stick the fork in & they start trying to negotiate for their safe passage to Cuba)
In the event that an argument has taken place, the exact same behaviour:
It isn’t possible for me to be wrong, misled, or mistaken in any other way for I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROARRR!!!
Therefore anything that goes wrong must be 100% your fault and I must be 100% innocent, having done absolutely nothing to get myself into this situation or having provoked it or anything else... oh no no... I am an angel, you are the devil
Silver_Fox
43 / Male
Comments: 1
Posted on June 11, 2011, 12:39 am
for me it is holding something against you because it happened in a dream!!! I have an ex who fell out with me because in a dream I kicked her!!! It NEVER happened!!! Yet I was still given the "I can't believe you kicked me" in the end I was beginning to wish I had kicked her...HARD!
Maryxiao
24 / Female
Comments: 7
Posted on September 13, 2011, 8:48 pm
Why not? Rich handsome men can fall in love with fat ugly women. It probably doesn’t happen often, however. We live in a society that places a great deal of emphasis on looks. Society tells us we should scorn and reject anyone who doesn’t fit a certain standard. So it takes very brave men and women to be able to look beyond a person’s exterior and get involved in a relationship with someone that the rest of society considers beneath them.On sugarbabymeet.c0m,you could found that everything is possible.Everyone can own love, It’s possible for a man to like a woman for who she is rather than for how she looks.
Auggy37
57 / Male
Comments: 3
Posted on October 5, 2011, 9:48 pm
I dispies heavy smoking women that don't care about others health. Why should they ruin their life and take ours with them? It's not fair that we have to sit by someone that we care about and just across the street is a beautiful blond with a cigerete in her hand every time people see her smoking and puffing on that deadly discusting thing that smells the atmosfere. I like women that cares so much for their health and can take good care of it. I most favorite woman is dark long hair fully dress in a evening gown geting out of a sports car and waving to whom walks by saying Hi! is my kind of woman.
Looking4love
