
1. Use your mouth No, not like that (although, yes, that will work too). Using your words to guide your partner to your sweet spot is not only practical, but both giving and receiving a heaping dose of hot verbal in the bedroom can up the sexy scale... Read More


Sleeping with your best friend Come on, if you’re actually that close, it’s not going to ruin the friendship. As long as you are both honest with one another and know how to not be drama queens, you’ll be just fine. Make sure you aren’t kidding... Read More

I’m sure you’ve read…oh, I don’t know, a billion…articles about why it’s soooo super fun and great to be single. Well, obviously, it can be super fun and great. But you guys are doing the whole internet dating thing. Odds are, you are single... Read More

Call it official: I don’t know what the heck to think about gender anymore. I really don’t think it exists the way it used to. We now live in a society where men can become women, women can become men, either can exist as an androgynous, unidentifiable... Read More

I can admit it: I don’t know it all. Despite years of diligent, ahem, research in the area, there’s much that still mystifies me about the male body and mind. So, in the spirit of education, here we are at the esteemed University of What the Hell... Read More

I’m not a fan of rules (says the totally typical 20-something sitting in a hip coffee shop, drinking tea and writing on her laptop). What I’m even less a fan of are rules involving escapades of the emotions. Affairs of the heart. The lore of the... Read More

1) He takes care of the little things in his life I’m talking about a man who actually goes to the dentist on a somewhat regular basis, changes the oil in his car when he’s supposed to and remembers to vote in local elections. These are the tiny... Read More

I’m a pretty happy girl. I would say I have at least one good belly laugh everyday, and that’s at the very least. What can I say? My friends are hilarious. That said, oh man, I enjoy a good cry. It feels great! Okay, that sounds a little…something... Read More

I’ve spent more time and energy than I care to admit going over all the ins and outs of putting good things in my body. Being healthy and conscious about my well-being is something that has always been very important to me. Not to brag or anything... Read More