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It’s called, Cunnilingus

“the act of using the mouth, lips and tongue to stimulate the female genitals. The clitoris is particularly noted for stimulation as it is the most sensitive part of the female genitalia. The term comes from an alternative Latin word for the vulva (cunnus) and from the Latin word for tongue (lingua).”

I know…it’s a strange word. But the act itself is as old as the age of time. It even had spiritual, cultural and religious significance in some eras. In today’s age however, it’s a more simplistic act in nature and simply meant to please us women. It’s a natural human behavior.

Positions can sometimes make the difference for some women. Some of us may have difficulty reaching an orgasm by simply lying back. Some need more stimulation, some need less stimulation…it’s all about trial and error. But performing oral sex on us is one of the most wonderful and enjoyable things you can do for us. We feel sexy, desirable…naughty…and sometimes just a little whorish (but in a good way).

For women, one of the biggest issues with oral sex would probably be hygiene. We don’t like it if we haven’t had a shower…so give us the heads up (no pun intended). We like it when a guy goes down on us and we’re clean…makes us feel sexier. Gives us the motivation to be inspired…our inhibitions will be less evident and we’ll go like there’s no tomorrow.

Some ideas for all you guys out there;

Like most things in life, if you enjoy it, it will not seem like a chore and, while your enjoyment will make it seem much easier to you, you will also end up doing it extremely well. And we most definitely like that! So, always do it for your enjoyment which will lead to our fulfillment and then we can both bask in our mutual satisfaction.

If you’re quiet as a mouse, we’ll have thoughts like, “Ok, why is he so quiet? Why isn’t he moaning…I smell, don’t I…maybe I didn’t shave everywhere.” Women are constantly having inner dialogues, even through sex. Give us the gift of thinking, albeit knowing through your movements, that you love how our scent and you adore the way we taste. Make sure we sense you savoring every moment, the moist, succulent smoothness of our lips and the growing hardness of our clitoris as it responds to your touches. Make us feel delicious. Then our inner dialogue will disappear and we will focus on the full enjoyment of the moment.

Don’t expect it to happen in the first two minutes

Women are not like guys…we don’t climax as soon as you touch us. On average, most women take anywhere from 15 minutes to a half hour to reach an orgasm. So be patient. Most women aren’t receptive to jump start approaches. It’s a sensitive area, so take things slow. Start off by alternating with licking and kissing…a little bit of light sucking…. starting out slowly and quicken your pace based on the gyrations of our body.

Women love watching, so take your time. We love watching you. Use your hands…touch us…your hands should constantly be moving over her body, our thighs, stomach, everywhere…and talk to her. Yes, that’s right, talk with your mouth full. A little dirty talk should help build the arousal level and will increase the intensity of the orgasm….and at the end of the day, that IS what you guys want.

Different positions or changing positions is sometimes a good idea. Just don’t try to do it when we’re in the throes of it, because that will instantly have you starting from square one. Be observant and find her favorite position…whether it’s on our back or straddling you while riding your mouth…could be one of those impromptu moments on a couch…wherever…as long as we are enjoying it.

It truly is a form of love making, something to savor

So gentlemen, remember the saying “timing is everything”, don’t forget that you need to come up for air when you’re in the middle of that oh so pivotal moment. Also, for some women, cunnilingus is the only way for them to achieve an orgasm. By adding this art of love making to your repertoire, it will ensure you are that better lover they are looking for. So go slow, work your way up, get acquainted and do it right…because when all is said and done, if you take enjoyment in it, the reward will be mind-blowing for both of us.

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BlackAcid

Posted on March 12, 2008, 9:55 pm

Honestly, i dont know if i am weird or not, but i love cunnilingus! If i actually had the option to either have sex or go down on a woman, i'd go down in a heartbeat. ... maybe i'm weird, what ever, i dont care... and i'm pretty sure the recipient wont either...

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Isabelle (Author)

Posted on March 15, 2008, 3:04 pm

A man after my own heart it seems...

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hotkountryboy

Posted on May 24, 2008, 2:45 pm

Eatn pussy is the BEST THANG IN THE WORLD

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kdog

Posted on July 24, 2008, 9:36 pm

Cunnilingus are the best. I'd do it (And have) for hours. Anything to please her!

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