You're tired of trying to meet people in bars, or at the grocery store, or while you're covered in sweat at the gym. And you've already been introduced to your friends' friends. And probably all of their friends too! If it seems like you've done all the rounds, and there's nobody else left to date... there's one very good choice left. And don't worry, it's not "staying single forever." It's joining groups in order to expand your circle of acquaintances and meeting singles outside your group of friends.
In pretty much any community, there are plenty of local group activities that you can take part in. Read on for some great ideas for meeting new people in your area.
Singles Groups
Though some singles groups tend to develop an "I'm here to take somebody home to bed" vibe, most of them are low-pressure, highly attended, and a lot of fun. The great thing about singles groups is that you don't have to worry about checking for rings or asking that good-looking guy or girl you have an eye on whether or not they already have a partner. Everybody is single, everybody is fair game; it can be a pretty freeing experience.
Another great thing about singles groups is that, unlike going on a one-on-one date, there's very little pressure to talk to any one person. You can hang out and converse with whomever catches your fancy, even if it's just as a friend. If you don't feel an attraction to a particular attendee, you don't have to talk to them. It's that simple.
Feel intimidated by the idea of attending a singles group in person? You might want to join an online singles group for your area, just to get your toes wet.
Sports Activities
There's something very sensual about meeting somebody through a physical activity. It creates a sexy dynamic right away that can be a lot of fun (or maybe a little dangerous if you're trying to behave yourself!). Sports activities are a great way to meet new people, because the focus is on the activity rather than the "meeting people". This allows you to get to know somebody (or several somebodies) in a very natural, low-pressured way.
Don't play any sports? Then sports activities groups are also a great way to learn something new, and get a little exercise. Just make sure to choose a group for amateurs so you don't get run over on the field!
Special Interests Groups
Do you like to write or read? Are you obsessed with movies or the Red Sox? Then taking those interests outside of the few friends who probably share them may be a great way to meet single people in your area. The best part? The people you meet will definitely share your interests, so you'll always have something to chat about.
Already have a film or creative writing group you attend, and there are no single members? Branch out to discover interests that you never knew you had. If you join a special interest group for a topic that interests you, but that you've never delved deeply into, learning about something new will be part of the reward.
Online Interest Groups
If you don't have time to join a lot of local groups or attend weekly meetings of "Labrador Lovers in Los Angeles," you might want to think about joining an online group. Online groups can be a great way to get to know people who share your interests without ever having to leave your home. A more casual way to meet people, these groups work well for those that are already doing some online dating. Find somebody you like in "Labrador Lovers in Los Angeles Online?" Send them to your online dating profile to check you out.
What are you waiting for? Get out there!
