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If you’re looking for an evening of hot steamy sex, here are a few things to remember to make your night spectacular.

When it comes to having great sex, it’s all about the senses – the 5 senses that is: see, hear, touch, taste and smell. If you have all of your bases (senses) covered, then you will be well on your way to a hot and steamy night of sex.

See It

Whether it’s in a hotel room, her place or yours, be sure to have the room looking as warm and as sensual as possible. That means tidying up the room and making sure the bed is made. Dim the lights and place a few candles in the room to create a mellow ambiance and help make the room warm, sensual and inviting.

Hear It

Play some slow jazz music in the background or whatever sounds relaxing. Now is also the time to start talking about love: how much you love her or care for her, how beautiful she looks, how you love her personality. You guys know the drill, it’s time to start talking sweet nothings if you want to get it on tonight – and yes women DO want to hear it. Not too much though, you don’t want to scare her away!

Touch Her….

Touch her, stroke her, pet her, kiss her, love her….in short make hot passionate love to her. Slow and sweet, fast and hard, both or any combination in between, it doesn’t matter, you know what she likes, so go for it!

Taste Her….

Before you do that, try to tempt her with some sweet treats of chocolate covered strawberries, fresh fruit and some champagne. You want her as relaxed and aroused as possible.

Smell The Roses

Have a single rose waiting on the bed for her, buy her a bouquet of flowers and have them delivered to her door before you arrive, or bring the flowers yourself. It’s not only a way of saying ‘I Love You’, but it also helps to awaken her sense of smell and get her more ‘in the mood’.

Have Fun

More than anything, talk to each other and laugh a lot. Sex should always be this good, all of the time. It’s your time alone together and having good, hot and steamy sex IS fun.

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jazzcheff62

Posted on August 20, 2008, 9:36 am

Nowadays most couples dont allow themselves time to create a home cooked meal.Buying frozen ready-to-eat dinners is not very romantic.Grocery shopping(together) takes time just like a routine morning workout.Creating a mood for romance and sex should be spontaneous.

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Katarina_HD (Author)

Posted on August 20, 2008, 1:32 pm

I think that's the problem to begin with...couples don't take the time to create a mood for romance. If you leave it to spontaneity alone, you may never create such a mood.

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