Let us all collectively give thanks to the bygone days of women feeling obligated to stay in unsatisfactory marriages. The thanks being that they are over. And that they taught all of us a valuable lesson in not settling, whether we experienced those... Read More

I’ll admit it: I’m a bit of a travel junkie. That doesn’t mean I’m some cool, jet-setting, she-traveler but I get away when I can and daydream/plan twice as much. Additionally, I’m also a full-time writer. Which means, like many of you, I’m... Read More

There are a lot of benchmarks in a relationship. Each of them changes something. Sex changes much or maybe nothing at all, depending on your and your partner’s emotional states. Marriage is a legal thing; it’s a big party with presents (I can’t... Read More

Do you ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of guy on your favorite internet dating site? More than that, do you ever sense that there’s some inherent thread between multiple men in your life but haven’t been able to put your finger... Read More

Let’s just say it: kissing is the best thing ever. Maybe second to orgasms. Maybe they’re tied. Actually, they are tied together but we’ll get to that. The point is, if you don’t think kissing is the best thing since peach cobbler, then you’re... Read More

I don’t know about the rest of you but I find myself spending more time and effort than I’d like in an attempt to coax my friends and family into vacations, from quick and dirty runaway weekends to large-scale international adventures. I’m the... Read More

After any serious altercation in a relationship, there’s obligatory talking. Oh, my dear Eartha Kitt, there’s always so much talking. You have to talk about what he did wrong, what she did wrong, what other people did wrong, who was right about... Read More

There are tons of amazing, legitimately single, totally earnest people out there in the wide, wonderful world of internet dating. But there are also some duds. Big, fat, disappointing (or disappearing) duds. This list isn’t meant to scare you away... Read More

Working out like crazy and (supposedly) eating right but still not dropping the pounds? Want to but can't check off "athletic" on your internet dating profile? Check out these reasons why you're NOT losing weight that you might not have ever known... Read More

Every woman worth her salt in the sack likes to think she has dynamite oral skills. The sad truth is that far too many women are the “up, down, up, down, done” type who think that the very fact that they’re giving men something that they so covet... Read More