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Is there a natural way to prevent and cure urinary tract infections triggered by sex?

On 2008-12-31, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Is there a natural way to prevent and cure urinary tract infections trigger...”

How soon can we have sex?

On 2008-12-24, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“When dating how soon do you "sleep" with someone? ...”

When is a woman at her sexual peak?

On 2008-12-17, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“When is a woman at her sexual peak? ...”

Is vaginal rejuvenation simply a vain, obsessive indulgence?

On 2008-12-10, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Are vaginal rejuvenation, labiaplasty and g-spot augmentation simply vain, ...”

Am I a sex addict?

On 2008-12-02, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the difference between liking sex a lot and being a sex addict? ...”

Where is a woman's G-spot?

On 2008-11-26, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Where is a woman’s G-spot? ...”

How do I convince my partner to have anal sex?

On 2008-11-19, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Is there a subtle way to introduce anal sex into the relationship, besides ...”

Where can I find my boyfriends' G-spot?

On 2008-11-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Where can I find my boyfriend's G-Spot? I have heard it exists but have no ...”

Dating after 40!?!!?

On 2008-11-05, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the best advice you have for people re-entering the dating scene af...”

Help I lost my mojo!!

On 2008-10-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Both my partner and I have almost no interest in sex these days. We used to...”

How do I get my parents to break up with my X and love my next?

On 2008-10-08, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I'm a 35 year old divorced woman with two terrific children aged 10 and 12....”

What is the most common sexual dysfunction?

On 2008-10-07, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the most common sexual dysfunction? ...”

How do I stop my GF's GF from meddling?

On 2008-09-30, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I really love my girlfriend. We've been together for over a year and I'm p...”

What is Karma Sutra?

On 2008-09-30, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the Karma Sutra? ...”

Am I a premature ejaculator?

On 2008-09-30, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“How quick qualifies as premature ejaculation? ...”

I want sex and she doesn't, do we have a future?

On 2008-09-26, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I want sex 5 times a day and she only wants it 5 times a year, do we have a...”

What do men like to talk about on a first date?

On 2008-09-24, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I've been out of the dating scene for many years, could you give me some id...”

Is low or no interest in sex normal?

On 2008-09-22, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I seem to have little or no interest in sex, is this normal? ...”

Why does my BF need booze to boink?

On 2008-09-16, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I am seeing a new man and it's gotten to the point where we are being physi...”

Do modern women still want to be treated like ladies?

On 2008-09-10, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Do women still expect doors opened for them and to be swooned over and stil...”

Is kink for weirdos or worth exploring?

On 2008-09-08, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“My girlfriend is pushing to explore some kinky stuff, is that just weird or...”

Will bad sex ruin our relationship?

On 2008-09-01, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I’ve met a really nice guy, we’ve been dating for about six months and ...”

Is my boyfriend gay?

On 2008-09-01, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I am a little worried about my boyfriend. He really loves to receive anal s...”

Do most couples who go to therapy split up?

On 2008-09-01, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Is it true that most couples that go to therapy split up? ...”

How do I get rid of an unwanted would be stalker?

On 2008-08-25, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the best way to get rid of an admirer? I have a business colleague ...”

How do I handle my crazy-making "monster in-law"?

On 2008-08-25, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Short of cutting all ties, what is the best way of handling an interfering ...”

Is my true love an online scammer?

On 2008-08-25, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“I am in a difficult situation with someone I care very much for. We met onl...”

Acronym confusion

On 2008-08-13, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Some friends of mine recently used the acronym LGBTQA. I didn't want to app...”

Is it okay to ask about past failed relationships?

On 2008-08-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Is it ok to ask someone on a date why their relationships failed in the pas...”

Should the guy pay on the first date?

On 2008-08-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Who pays on a first date, me or the guy? ...”

The best way to end a relationship

On 2008-08-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the best way to end a relationship that is over a year in duration?...”

Am I ready yet?

On 2008-08-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“When will I know if I am ready to be in a relationship with someone again? ...”

Transsexual or transgender - What's the difference?

On 2008-08-12, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“What is the difference between transsexual and transgender? ...”

Is bigger always better?

On 2008-08-01, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Gotta ask....Does size really matter? ...”

Girls asking the guys out

On 2008-08-01, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
“Do guys get turned off if a girl asks them out? ...”