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Cheryl Swan is our Datepad Relationships, Dating and Sexuality Expert.

Cheryl is an international consultant, therapist, writer and speaker. She inspires people with her openness and easy humor in discussing the most personal and delicate of topics. Cheryl’s work ranges from one on one sessions (available via phone or Skype www.sextherapyandeducation.com) to international consulting and presenting.

Dating Questions

“Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy.” -Henry Kissinger

A date is defined as:
a. An engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest.
b. One's companion on such an outing.

As we all know there is much more to dating than this definition indicates. The thought and process of dating can stir up a wide range of feelings, from exhausting, daunting and frightening to exciting, joyful and rewarding.

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Relationship Questions


“The most empowering relationships are those in which each partner lifts the other to a higher possession of their own being.” -Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

We have been to the moon and back, cracked the DNA code and unlocked the mysteries gravity and the atom. Yet for all the miraculous and astonishing accomplishments of humanity, we still grapple with the intricate interactions of the human heart, mind and soul as expressed in relationships. Mastering our relationships is the last great frontier and potentially one of the most magical and joyful gifts in life!

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Sexuality Questions

"When you die, God and the angels will hold you accountable for all the pleasures you were allowed in life that you denied yourself." -Anonymous

We live in a contradictory society where sex is used to sell everything from condominiums to chewing gum. And yet...as enlightened as we all get about things spiritual and quantum, most of us still remain a little shy, blocked, repressed or at least guarded about "IT" - the one thing we all have in common from the time we are born until the time we die - arguably the most powerful energy we possess. Our sexual energy is the greatest untapped ever-renewing natural resource at our disposal!

Expand your sexual consciousness to empower your life! Please submit your Sexuality questions and stay tuned for your topic to be addressed!

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Is there a natural way to prevent and cure urinary tract infections triggered by sex?

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How soon can we have sex?

On 2008-12-24, an anonymous user asked Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships)
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When is a woman at her sexual peak?

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