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Where can I find my boyfriends' G-spot?
A question for Cheryl Swan (Dating, Sexuality & Relationships) on 2008-11-12.
An anonymous user asks...
Where can I find my boyfriend's G-Spot? I have heard it exists but have no clue where to look or what to do with it when I get there!
Dating, Sexuality & Relationships expert Cheryl Swan answers...
His G-spot is just an inch or two inside the anus towards the front (anterior) of the body. Yours is in basically the same location but in the vagina. When entering the anus use a lubricant. The area has no natural lubrication like the vagina. So, it is important that you use it if you want him to enjoy the process. You may want to wear a thin vinyl glove, that you can purchase at any pharmacy, to protect his sensitive areas from your fingernails. When inserting a finger, go very slowly until you feel the area become more open, if he says it is painful just stop for a few seconds or so and hold your finger where it is until the feeling eases off. It is easier if he is in a state of arousal at the time because everything naturally feels better. As well the outside of the anus is very sensitive and feels great when massaged. Once your finger is in to about the second knuckle or so you will feel it open up and become larger inside. Slowly and gently curl your fingertip upwards, towards the front of his body. You will feel a smooth area that feels like a mushroom cap, that is the prostate or male g-spot! It is a round spot about one inch across. Move your finger back and forth very gently and in circles on the area while getting him to tell you what feels best. You will feel the prostate enlarge and become harder as he becomes more aroused. As he orgasms you will feel the contractions and the prostate become very hard like a small stone. Once he has climaxed you can slowly remove your finger. It is very good for the prostate to be massaged before and during orgasm. You can also purchase a specially designed prostate massager from any sex shop that is designed to hit just the right spots and move with the contractions of his body. These massagers can be worn during your normal sexual interactions for added pleasure. Your man will have much bigger, deeper orgasms with G-spot stimulation and it is always good to add variation to your sexual repertoire. Have Fun!
