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Question:

I am not getting many responses from other Datepad members. Why?

Answer:

There can be lots of reasons why someone has not responded to your Pad, but here are just a few reasons why you may not be getting very many responses to your profile:

1. No picture? Why not? This is the single most important aspect of your individual Pad. You need to let people know what you look like and no picture or a poor quality picture that really doesn't show what you look like, can really hinder your chances for meeting that special someone. So get out there and make sure you have a clear and good quality picture of yourself.

2. Do you have enough interesting information about yourself in your profile? People like to know 'things' about you, so don't be shy and put yourself out there. The more open and honest you are about yourself, the more likely you will find a quality 'match'.

3. Are you just waiting for someone to notice you? Why not try emailing someone or nudging them to get a conversation going? If you are waiting for someone to contact you and haven't made any attempt to contact others, then you are seriously limiting your chances to finding someone. Take a chance and spread your wings.

4. Try changing your thumbnail picture in your profile. People notice new pictures and are usually curious enough to check out your profile if you do.

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