Bullofthewoods
51 / Male
Posts: 4
Posted on June 23, 2009, 8:07 pm
A nice, young lady came to my store (WalMart) about a year ago. I seemed like she was very interested in me for awhile (and I think she may still be). But she is hard-core shy! I'm afraid that if I come on too stong, I may scare her away for good.
Any ideas of how to break this shell?
CuddlesKev
29 / Male
Posts: 6
Butchart
23 / Male
Posts: 1
Posted on October 15, 2009, 4:34 am
Its a long time that you saw her but doesn't matter if you know her contact details.why you are not talking her Just go ahead and tell your feelings.Aforesaid you told that She was also interested in you but she feels shy .Diffidence is the jewel of girls ,so don't think that she would first come and propose you.Be man and say what you think about her.For further assistance you may visit www.themodernman.com
BoricuaTNT69
40 / Female
Posts: 7
Posted on October 15, 2009, 6:46 am
I understand that you are "in like" with this person but you are working and when you do anything else while working, that is known as "stealing company time" and you can get fired if the person you are talking about does not appreciate you "coming on to her". You are perceiving her as interested by looks and what you might be reading wrong---"body language".
Saying anything to her is also known as sexual harrassment even though it is not another employee.
Nuff said.
Pininfarina85
44 / Male
Posts: 3
Posted on November 2, 2009, 4:12 pm
such a buzzkill boricua, but unfortunately you are right about that. I wouldnt mess with her too much but there has to be a way to unoffensively get a point across. But tough choice, make a move and risk job, or not make a move and remain chickless. But here is an icebreaker.
First make sure she isnt wearing a ring, then just comment that you noticed she doesnt wear a wedding ring. She will answer she isnt married, just reply that you find that hard to believe etc. Be subtle about though.