Posted on March 28, 2008, 8:24 am

Women love it when men can last long. Gives us the time we need to enjoy. But what if he can't? Nice for it to be possible without using drugs or alcohol etc., but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Would love to hear thoughts and comments on this one...especially from the women.
Isabelle

Posted on November 24, 2008, 6:06 pm

"lasting longer" meaning intercourse or the whole 9 yards?

Posted on December 13, 2008, 9:09 pm

I think takeing your time and resting frequently helps, for me i can go the distence and make my sweety able to climax at least twice and i control my sensitivity i'm not to sure how it works but for me i can turn up or down my sinsitivity at will so i guess for women that would be an awsome thing.Also i think practice makes perfect as well, Especialy when your single is the perfect time to ready up that love gun LOL.
go buy a nice synthetic skin masterbater their not cheap but they do work very well and will help you to learn control i know from expeirience that is does work. Your women will love you more for your new found longivity.

Posted on February 18, 2009, 11:50 am

Well for me personaly as a man. I havew found that the more and longer foreplay I have the longer I last once we start getting down to the heart of the matter. Also I think that a woman needs alot of prep... a stoking of the fire. Honestly a pill that can make you last longer is a cop out. Will power as well as desire makes you last longer. Well if not longer them maybe more repetitive. (meaning more than one time a night)

NOw again is longer a sprint or is it a marathon. Is it a straight out race or one that is done in stages.

Is it better to have one two hour encounter or two one hour encounters in a night with your partner.?

Posted on May 9, 2009, 7:42 pm

men are like gas engines,they start up quickly,run for a short time and then sputter out...women are like diesel engines,they take longer to start,but once they get running they run for a long long time(proof again that god has a sense of humor)...men peak at around eighteen or nineteen,woman at thirty or forty....wait a minute,i was a virgin till i was twenty(is he serious?),if men peak at eighteen, we'll never know how good i could have been...peace

Posted on August 12, 2009, 10:50 pm

you must be sleeping with the wrong men, lol. Im just kidding, sometimes it's hard for men to last long depending on how aroused they are, how attractive the woman is, and how good she is at foreplay and such. It all plays a role in endurance, there are tactics many men can take to increase this endurance. Ive come up with a couple strategies myself but no women to test them on. Ive also heard from a few women that certain guys can go on for a long time, but can never finish. Good luck finding the right choice.

Posted on August 18, 2009, 1:40 am

SOMETIMES WHEN WE ARE WITH THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE AND ITS OVER BEFORE YOU REALLY GET TO COOKING AND YOU WONDER WHY MAY TAKE SMALL BREAKS INBETWEEN THE ACTION FORPLAY CAN PROLONG THE ENDING AND YOU CAN GET YOUR BEFORE THEY GET THEIRS LOL SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO TREAT YOURSELF AND NOT CHEAT YOURSELF

Posted on October 20, 2009, 9:40 pm

WELL I DO NOT KNOW ABOUT THAT MY LAST GIRLFRIEND TOLD ME THAT THERE MIGHT BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME CUZ I COULD BLOW MY WADE AND STILL BE HARD EVERY TIME. THE LONGEST I LASTED WAS ABOUY TWO AN A HALF HOURS WITH OUT ALCOHOL. BUT WITH ALCOHOL WE ARE NOT GOING TO SLEEP.

Posted on November 1, 2009, 3:09 am

I personally have to agree with what most of you are saying because it does come down to building up your stamina for the job, which does take time to do. As for the fake vagina or whatever it is you prefer, you don't need any of those things, good old lefty and righty work wonders. I know when I'm with my wife she does take time to get herself to orgasm, and if not for me being able to control myself she wouldn't ever get off and that's something I can say I'm proud of doing since I've worked on that control for so many years. But another thing you can try is a cock ring because they do help without the lose of feeling such as a condom. I thing it can also have something to do with pain tolerance as well for the guy, because I enjoy pain greatly when my wife is teasing me. I really enjoy when she uses her teeth while she gives a blow job and i don't mean light nibbles, I love to feel the scratching and that's just something I don't feel inside a vagina so that could be a difference for some guys as well. That's just my thoughts on this though.

Posted on November 1, 2009, 6:57 am

I have determined that the length of time it takes for a guy to orgasm doesn't really matter. There are times where I have lasted too the point where the girl was too tired. And there have been times where I finished in a few minutes. I'm not sure why that is or what the differences are because both happened with the same girl. What I do know is that I learned to be able to just keep going without stopping when I came early. That way I was able to go until she was satisfied and pleased. So in the end when a guy reaches his orgasm doesn't really matter. It's his willingness and ability to continue on and please the woman he's with in order to satisfy her.

Posted on December 9, 2009, 3:53 pm

Only if you have lionel richie playing

Posted on December 21, 2009, 12:25 pm

lol. men peak at 18, well then u guys are all screwed, but on the other hand iam 18 right now so ladies if u want to get pleasured hit me up.

Posted on December 22, 2009, 8:51 pm

ok, she said she was looking for females to respond and this thread is basicly a sausagefest.

Posted on December 22, 2009, 11:46 pm

As long as both partner enjoys the session, then it's all good. Rule of thumb is ladies first.. So lasting longer is irrelevant.

Posted on December 23, 2009, 8:09 pm

Isabelle! Sorry this is not the opinion of a women that being said a lot of women can outlast They're mate Regular men anyway but good sexual health is important so make sure you are just as satisfied as your partner even if that means the use of toys with his help...

Posted on December 23, 2009, 8:51 pm

i usualy come qyt quickly n as am only girl speakin if d foreplay done properly am alfwa ther n love wen a lad goes all floppy inside me dat a feelin u cnt dscribe.dn it tym 4 d blow jobs ect n strt agen

Posted on December 24, 2009, 1:04 pm

Masturbate less