Posted on October 7, 2009, 9:40 pm

Everyone I seem to come across (weather it be in person or online.) end up mind f*****g me. I don't want to play games. I'm sick of being screwed over. Are there any good guys anywhere? Honestly.
If you're a guy between 18 and 26 reading this and you can honestly say you're a decent guy then feel free to respond or message me.
-Lyssa

Posted on October 7, 2009, 10:53 pm

Seriously. Boys are ridiculous. I need a mature male. Or does that just not exist? Hah, wow.

Posted on October 18, 2009, 1:06 pm

I'm sure there is someone out there for you Lyssa, just enjoy being 18 for now and have fun looking at what's on offer. Don't let anyone get into your head until you know they are worth it. Good Luck

Posted on October 18, 2009, 1:22 pm

Theres someone for everyone :)

Posted on October 18, 2009, 5:58 pm

The good ones are almost always the last ones in every group if you get what I am saying. Just try from there.

Posted on October 18, 2009, 6:48 pm

Ok, Well there are good guys out there just they are all married..If there are any more then they are somewhere between a rock and a hardplace cuz I haven't found one yet worth spending too much time on..So till the right one comes along I will keep living my life as we all should..Cheers to everyone finding the one they are searching for if they are searching..

Posted on October 18, 2009, 7:10 pm

why does it seem that all the good ones are either married or gay? i have gone through 2 realtionships within the last 6 months. and in the end have gotten the ever so popular. its not you its me. well i hope that both of them rot in hell. because they had something good and let it get away

Posted on October 18, 2009, 10:40 pm

not to say you make bad choices but learn about someone before you decide to be with them, i know i do. i keep up a little barrier to keep people away unless they are willing to talk with me for at least 3 months and by then that barrier with that individual has worn thin, and makes me more likely to try more with them.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 4:58 am

I usually am careful about letting guys in but this last one three weeks ago kept reassuring me that I could trust him & that he was a good guy and wouldn't hurt me and really cared and blah blah blah, you get the idea.

So finally, naturally I felt that if I didn't let him in and trust him at least somewhat then I would lose him, so I gave in. And he ended up to be lying about everything including breaking up with his girlfriend.

What the hell is wrong with guys? They're pieces of shit.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 7:42 am

i know personally. i spent 2 years with a girl and she took me to her parents told them we were dating before she mentioned it to me. but we stayed together and wound up getting married, well 6 months after the marriage she wants a divorce because we are not compatible, have nothing in common, and various other things. but she told me she was considering divorce 2 months after we got married, but never told me because she didn't want to hurt me. she wanted to make me happy in her opinion but lied to me more and more over the next four months. and this is what i'm going through now. divorce. sadly i still love her and wish i could win her back because she is the first person to spend time to get to know me and earn my trust enough for me to open up to her. but it wont happen again, not with her. but ya guys can be pieces of shit but so to can the ladies as i just mentioned.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 7:59 am

Yeah, but I think its more common for a man to be a player than a girl. Not to be sexist but it really does seem that way..Ya know?

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:43 am

yes more males than females, that's true. I'd offer myself up but ya that wouldn't ever work even if you were close. even though we are getting a divorce. i still love her just the same as i did the night she told me she wanted the divorce, and i don't plan on giving up on a small chance that i can win her back one day.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:45 am

If i have to wait till the day i die, well i plan to tell her that i still love her on my own death bed one day if it comes to that.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:45 am

Ugh, I hope I never have to get a divorce. I would love to get married young and have a fairy tale life. Blah, guess no ones really that lucky though.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:47 am

marriage isnt a big thing as people make it out to be. if you can live with someone and not get married then id advise you to do it. saves time and lots of money.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:48 am

Weddings are romantic though. & I'm an only child my parents wanna see that someday.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:48 am

i'm $3,000 give or take a few in the hole now, not counting rings, divorce fees and whatever else.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:50 am

Things don't always have to end poorly though. :/ Sometimes its better to take the plung and fail than to have never known if you could have made it.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:53 am

i can honestly say id rather of not married and just lived together. and now i wont ever let myself get attached to anyone again, not like i am now.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 11:54 am

Eh, I dunno. All I know is that I dream of meeting the right guy that won't hurt me and will want to devote himself and all his love to me.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 12:02 pm

guess i can say the same but i see where it got me. 2 1/2 years down the drain, and nothing but pain. hope you have better luck than i did.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 12:04 pm

Thanks. I'm thinking maybe cause my luck is so shitty right now it might get better..Idk

Posted on October 19, 2009, 12:45 pm

Hi Lyssa. I can say that im a genuine guy looking for a relationship. The only problem is that I live in London, England :-( My parents are divorced so I know what its like for a relationship to fail - I certaintly wouldnt want that.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 12:47 pm

London, huh? I met someone from there over summer. :P I love guys with accents.

Posted on October 19, 2009, 12:52 pm

Lyssa, you must be looking in the wrong places! I can assure you there are good guys out there - perhaps you need to meet some people that are outside your normal type. Unexpected things could happen! Good luck with your search!