Posted on October 29, 2009, 9:00 pm

I am a 45 year old guy and have never dated in my life. What am I doing wrong?

Posted on November 2, 2009, 4:03 pm

never dated? virgin? Just curious.

couple things, if you REALLLY want to date, you need to commit yourself to find a date, and not by announcing that you are looking. You need to look at yourself, and i dont mean this as rude, but simply as self evaluation. You have an attribute that a majority of women like, so you need to embrace that. You are a good height. Chicks like taller guys. However, there are other things you need to improve on. Its not enough to point out your honesty that you need to lose weight. LOSE THE WEIGHT. Tall and in shape will get you a date no problem. But you need to commit to it or it will never happen. Another key component is that you may be a little too picky? Again not meant to be rude, its just life. But, you may want to take whatever you can get. 1) gives you some confidence 2) That confidence leads to bigger and better things.
Main point, look at yourself through a womans eyes and ask yourself what a woman would and wouldnt like about you. Then commit to making yourself more of what women like and less of what they dont. Despite what women say, their number one criteria is still looks. Improve them, and you will improve a lot.