Posted on September 5, 2008, 11:50 pm

What would you do to meet a person(of the opposite sex) that you desire on any Internet Matching/’Dating’ website; and how would you attract this person to you for:
1. a ‘Casual Date’? ?
2. a “Friend with Benefit(s)” or an ‘Intimate Encounter’? ?
3. an ‘Amorous/Romantic Relationship’? ?

Posted on September 8, 2008, 2:12 pm

I'd start out by posting a photo !

Posted on September 9, 2008, 7:41 am

I'd have to agree with HotFlash, a photo is a must, otherwise I don't think one is very serious in finding someone without one. Sending an email - a good grammatically correct email to introduce yourself to start with....then I think chatting on line a few times before deciding if its time to meet.

Posted on September 11, 2008, 11:10 am

Pictures are the most important thing, I think.... make sure your main picture isn't one of your motorcycle with you blurry in the background. A good, smiling face shot will definitely attract people to you!

Posted on September 16, 2008, 9:42 pm

people show your face,come on i want to see if you hav teeth!!!!smiles!!and for people who dont show their face let your significant other know ur surfing for some strange!!!!

Posted on December 14, 2008, 8:25 pm

I am all new at this so what i look for is a picture to see if their serious about meeting someone or are they on here just to mess around, then i look at their name to see if it means something or a crazy name that just shows their personality then i look at when was the last time they were on here because if it has been awhile then there is no scence of meeting them.

I would start out by having a casual date

Posted on December 15, 2008, 9:23 am

Sounds like a pretty good system! Thanks for sharing.

Posted on March 9, 2009, 4:15 pm

Well asking for sex is a terrible idea for both men and women.

For men you will scare away women you may possibly love to be with because most women do not wish to be used. Or you attract romantically taken, or emotionally unavailable ladies. What if you get attached? You are not a robot. Then you got screwed in more ways than one. I have people looking for sex blocked. Most catches do.

For a woman, saying you want sex if you want a relationship will not get you a man. Men do not link love and sex together in the same way. He is likely to grow less interested instead of more. Unless you have a great guy and then saying you want a relationship is the better option anyway. You will still also attract a lot of undesirables.

So unless you are capable of accepting a heartless affair and you are willing to take the numerous consequences, do not say you are looking for sex.

Posted on June 5, 2009, 3:34 pm

i wouldn't post anything unless you have a photo posted

Posted on May 20, 2010, 1:26 am

Here is what makes me click on by...

Did you take your own pic? Mirror shots are ALMOST worse than no pic. MAN UP and ask a friend to take some shots, or go PAY a professional. If you are too embarassed to admit that you are dating online to your friends, delete your profile. If you DO meet someone, you will be placing her/him in an uncomfortable position if you ask her/him not to reveal how you met.

Is your profile grammatically correct? SPELL CHECK!! This is so important, that I will say it again...USE SPELL CHECK! Use proper punctuation; avoid emoticons. Be real, detailed, and clever.

DO NOT use the term "anything outdoors," unless you want Roseanne Barr to answer your ad.

Do not say you need a hottie, or thin woman/man. People are very sensitive about weight, and it is too subjective to be cubby-holed.

Be honest. You have to be yourself, nobody else can. If you are posing, you will be lonley. Most people get the liar vibe pretty quickly, and the old bait and switch routine never works.

Set up safe meeting places, be careful in disclosing personal information, and tell someone where you will be and who you will be with. Set a buddy check time and pick another time with every check-in. Make sure you mention your friend will be checking on you. Everyone should understand safety concerns. That being said, don't drag it out for weeks before meeting. your interested person will get interested in someone else. Get it offline in a reasonable amout of time. We live in a world of instant gratification.

Have fun meeting people and don't let stupid stuff be deal-breakers. BE REASONABLE.

Hope this helps.

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