Posted on January 30, 2010, 1:14 pm

well,i'm not happy in life,n is been long time. I want to be happy,i wan to find my right part...

Posted on January 30, 2010, 1:32 pm

I wonder this myself...why don't good girls find the right ones? May I suggest, KS007, that you find and do what makes you happy? Don't worry so much about finding someone else to make you happy--that isn't anyone else's job but yours. By doing things you love and being happy you will attract others to you. If your life isn't happy another person can't make it better, that's a fairy tale society sells us. Be happy with who you are. =)

Posted on January 30, 2010, 4:05 pm

because all the good guys are taken

Posted on January 30, 2010, 9:06 pm

pickins are thin on both sides, ladies.

Posted on January 31, 2010, 12:05 am

Statistically speaking, there are 119 single guys in their 20's compared to every 100 single girls of the same age (U.S. Census). So the pickens can't be that slim folks. And Filly_Girl, if you have a negative attitude you'll get exactly that--> negativism. Nobody likes a downer. Cheer up, every pot has its lid, the hard part is finding your match. Good luck! =)

Posted on January 31, 2010, 8:10 am

Well, I cant tell u one thing here: the bad ones cover good ones. A lot of us have bad experience in life and we know what is really bad n what is really good in relationships. But most of us not much think when we r in love ( in is happen with bad ones). Well, I happy to live life, but not happy to be alone.
Where r u the right one!?

Posted on January 31, 2010, 5:35 pm

not at all !

there is alot of guys who give good guys bad reps, but thereis a few out there who are good guy's, seems strange that we can;t ever find a good girl thou lol

Posted on January 31, 2010, 6:56 pm

what gets me is all of the sites where the guys have to pay! i am sorry but i am not paying to chat with someone that may or may not be for real!

Posted on February 1, 2010, 3:32 am

Because guys love bitches! And Good girls usually fall for bad guys. Wanna get good guys? Better be bitch~! :P

Posted on February 1, 2010, 6:12 am

I'm not agree!

Posted on February 1, 2010, 2:10 pm

I'd rather not be a bitch in order to get a man to talk to me... because if he's gonna want me to be a bitch then he's not a good man.

Its hard to find a good man, I am not living in the negative, and yet I still find a negative love life... I think that there are men out there that want more... and thats fine, but if they don't see the 'more' in the person, then they don't look further..

KS007, I think you just take your time, and enjoy life, and at one point, He will come into your life... Thats what I'm hoping for at this point. :)

Posted on February 3, 2010, 5:09 am

i posted a comment and it was deleted by someone, so now i refuse to bestow the secrets of life on you, no matter how much you beg me. NEVER!!

Posted on February 3, 2010, 6:09 am

@Olchristo, forum posts may be removed for a variety of reason. Please refer to this http://www.datepad.com/faq/why-was-my-forum-post-deleted/

Posted on February 3, 2010, 11:17 am

now now all you good girls,,lets get reall,,we don,t live in the 50s anymore,,what are you wating for, a 50s kinda guy,,they don,t exsits today,,you have to be just as aggresive as a man today,,,NEWS FLASH=if your worried about what the man will think of you,,thier is no such thing as a slut now a days, and the way you mommy raised you will just get you,,yes you,ve guessed is...ALONE,,so let all raise our skirts and say cheers to all the bad girls out thier.

Posted on February 3, 2010, 11:44 am

Sometimes, we good guys find the good girls... scratch that, the GREAT girls, and they want the bad guys. So we stick our heads in the sand and give up. This is why you can't find the good guys, hon.

Don't worry, you'll find him.

Posted on February 3, 2010, 3:31 pm

chloe, maybe you should try clicking your link. also a page isn't going to tell why MY comment was deleted.

Posted on February 3, 2010, 4:14 pm

its cuz all good girls r ruined by shitty girl

Posted on February 3, 2010, 4:45 pm

If girls would stop looking for tall dark and handsome and bad boys, they would see that there are many good guys out there. You just have to keep looking. Remember, the good guys are out there on the prowl at bars and nightclubs, they are involved in activities and taking care of things. The same goes for the guys. The good girls are not at the bars unless they are with friends having a good time.

Lastly, what is a good girl and good guy? Just because they don't flaunt their sexuality out in the open, that doesn't mean they aren't sexual. Also, a lot of the good girls and guys tend to be more on the introverted side so won't be the aggressors in the beginning of a relationship.

Posted on February 3, 2010, 5:23 pm

Im with Btaf62 in a way

I consider myself a good guy by My standard of what i think a good guy to be, i wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend i wont put her down when she puts her opinion in i dont interrupt her when she is talking same can be applied to good girls mostly respect for the other person. this is not everything but u get my point.

But to me it seem when ever you find some1 looking for what u have to offer they throw the wrench in to the gears so to speak by saying has to be athletic build basically a 10/10 in the looks department this also applies to both men and women who wouldn't even consider a 8/10 or lower but dont let me think you should ask for what makes u happy im just saying all the 10/10 men and women will get taken quickly so if you exspect to get a 10/10 for a perfect date goodluck to you.

ps im obviously not a 10/10 in looks but i have seen alot of relationships from friends and family some going great some are ridiculous cause they cant see there partners true colors but it's there choice to pick what they want in there life as is it yours so make a good choice KS007 dont settle for what you are unsure of be 100% sure. ok im done now u can breath haha

Posted on February 3, 2010, 7:37 pm

i've only read the first few posts, but in reference to the original post. I am one of the "good guys," and not trying to toot my own horn too much, but i am pretty awesome. I treat women with the respect they deserve on a person to person basis. I dont believe in cheating or abusing (physically or mentally). I'm fun, charismatic, funny, easy-going, and an all-around great guy who tries to do the right thing in every situation. while i'm awesome in all those regards, the fact is im not hot enough or sexy enough, so i get looked over. I honestly dont think im bad looking, or ugly, im just not good looking, so i get passed up for the hot asshole who will treat you like crap. so that's the answer to your question, it's not that there's slim pickings for good guys, it's that there's slim pickings for good, sexy/hot guys

Posted on February 3, 2010, 7:41 pm

@olchristo, you'll have to copy and paste, url's aren't enabled in the forums.

Posted on February 3, 2010, 8:32 pm

Ask anyone I know, and they'll tell you that I'm a good guy. But have been looking for 20 years now (am 40) and still have not found Miss Right...

Posted on February 3, 2010, 9:34 pm

The right person for you is out there. It's just unfortunate that we live in a superficial world. I'm sure we've come across people that possess the qualities that we look for in a relationship. However, our perception becomes skewed when we think and judge and evaluate and rate. The ideals of what our society considers "attractive" starts to kick in. Then we start to hold back and push away.

I'll admit right here, I'm no relationship guru, I am picky, and I am single. I do not need to be in a relationship to be happy. Your happiness should not rely of the presence of someone else in your life. If you truly want to by happy, you have to:

#1 Love yourself because it makes no sense to love someone if you are not capable of loving yourself first.

#2 Make it happen. Don't wait for happiness to come to you, you have to go out there and find it.

Good Luck!

Posted on February 4, 2010, 12:09 am

I think a guy that wants a bitch is the type that doesn't have much of a spine or a mind of his own and needs someone to lead him around. And then when he screws up (like screws around) he can blame it was his gf's fault cause she was a bitch. I'd rather have a guy that has a mind of his own to figure things out. Although I have had to learn to set my boundaries and stick to them, like go out with girls, have my own life and things I like to do, makes me more attractive to my man instead of him always taking me for granted

Posted on February 4, 2010, 12:11 am

Think their is no such thing as a Mr or Mz Right, just a Mr or Mz MakeDo LOL